"A life well lived, a heart well loved."

I do not usually run obituaries. I made one exception once before & this is the second one.

Rodrigo's wife Michelle sent this to me yesterday. It was her specific request that this be published July 1. Why that specific date is not something I am going to post on the blog. 

"John,

Thank you for running this for us, and for being a trusted source to Rigo."

A life well lived, a heart well loved.

Rodrigo Reyna-Sanchez, lovingly known throughout his life as Rod, Rigo, Dad, Papa, Roddio, Sarge, Officer Sanchez, 3L13, and 3B83, passed away unexpectedly at approximately 05:13 on Saturday, May 31, 2025,  just past mile marker 15, “15 and then some,” as he would say, on Highway 36 in Humboldt County, California.  

He was 58 years old.  Known for his unwavering dedication to family and friends, quick wit, and immaculate mustache. Rigo left a lasting impact wherever he ventured.  Driven by his faith and a superhuman work ethic, Rigo put his whole heart into everything that he did.  Father, husband, brother, friend - it mattered not the context of your relationship with him, if you needed him he was there ready and willing to do all within his capacity to help. Though Rigo is no longer with us, his spirit lives on in the hearts of all who knew and loved him.  Rigo was born on Saturday, the 10th of September, 1966 in Coalcoman, Michoacan, Mexico.  He was the second child and oldest son of what would soon grow to be an extremely large close-knit family.  His father, Jesus, had been working to save money and move his young family into a better life in California.  In 1969, Jesus achieved his goal and moved his wife, Maria, and their two young children, Anna and Rigo to the small town of Hydesville where Rigo would go on to spend the majority of his life.  Rigo’s parents were the guiding force behind the man that he would become.  An industrious immigrant couple, Jesus and Maria prioritized hard work, generosity, and kindness while raising their children, traits that Rigo would embody in his life.  They instilled within him an intense dedication to faith in the Catholic Church.  Every Sunday, you could find Rigo and his siblings attending mass - a belief that would stick with Rigo until the very end.  Whenever he encountered a moment of doubt or indecision, Rigo would reflect on the teachings of his parents and the church for guidance.  Always on his person was a crucifix necklace and a picture of his mother, Maria.  He’d often state that in his darkest moments he could hear his mother’s voice calling to him, guiding him to the correct decision and putting his soul at ease, as he knew that she and God above were watching out for him. Soon after settling in Hydesville, Rigo welcomed his younger siblings Veronica, Jorge, and Rosie into the family.  A closer group of siblings than Anna, Rigo, Veronica, Jorge, and Rosie I have never seen.  As the oldest brother, Rigo took immense pride in his role as his siblings’ protector, mentor, and ego deflator (Rigo’s wit and sharp tongue were never in short supply, but he reserved his best work for the siblings).  Quick to make a joke and even quicker to render aid, Rigo’s love for his siblings was endless. Rigo began his educational journey at Hydesville Elementary School in the fall of 1971.  His first foray into the world beyond his home, Rigo would soon began to thrive, forging lifelong relationships with his classmates and several of his favorite teachers, some of whom would go on to teach his oldest sons nearly 30 years later, a strange quirk of time that always placed Rigo at ease as he knew his children were in good hands.  Mr. Qualls and Mr. Rizza were his favorites, the former helping him build a foundation of self-discipline that would develop into his lifelong dedication to hard work and seeing a job well done, and the latter instilling in him the spark of curiosity that saw Rigo maintain a commitment to learning and problem solving throughout the rest of his life. After Hydesville Elementary, Rigo would go on to attend Fortuna Union High School beginning in the fall of 1980.  It is here that he came into his own as a young man, developing the skills and relationships that would see him become successful in his adult life.  Rigo excelled in the traditional academic sense as ell as in his trades classes, chiefly metal working, wood working, and auto shop.  These skills would translate into a successful career in metal fabrication and he would begin working at Fortuna Iron Works while still in high school.  With his younger brother Jorge in tow, Rigo would spend many late nights in the shop honing his technique and cultivating an impressive metalworking talent.  Ever the perfectionist, Rigo would not rest until the job was done to his high standard, fabricating lumber racks, gates, ornate fencing, and other various and sundry items, many of which are still present in the community today.  Rigo would always exclaim with glee whenever he’d see one of his masterpieces, making sure to let Jake and I, and later on in life, Stevie and Sophia, know that he had made it, how long it took him to make it, and how he overcame the problems and puzzles associated with making it. Rigo would graduate from Fortuna High as a member of the class of 1984.  In the years to follow, he would continue his tenure with Fortuna Iron Works before transitioning into a role as an equipment operator/carpenter for local construction companies.  While working for Grace Construction, Rigo met and fell in love with the daughter of the owner, Megann Grace.  The two began dating and, in May of 1989, they welcomed Rigo’s first son, Jordan, into the world.  The pair then married in 1990 before welcoming Rigo’s second son, Jake, in November of 1990.  With a wife and two young children to support, Rigo saw the need to further his education to increase his employment opportunities and enrolled in an undergraduate program at Cal Poly San Luis Obispo.  Some of my earliest memories are of visiting Rigo in his dorm room, playing with toy cars while he did schoolwork. The rigors of college in an unfamiliar area 12 hours away from his young children proved to be too much and Rigo made the difficult decision to move back home, resuming his work in construction to provide for his family.  Young as they were, the stress of raising two young boys while both working long hours to make ends meet led to Rigo and Megann separating in 1992.  Though no longer together, the two always made sure to put their children first and maintained a friendly co-parent relationship to provide Jake and I with a family environment in which we could thrive.  Rigo also remained very close with Megann’s family, maintaining a very loving relationship with her father and brother. During the 1990s, Rigo was employed with Kelly Martin Construction. While contributing to several major projects, he also built a meaningful and lasting friendship with Kelly. Similar to his metal fabrication projects, Rigo took pride in seeing his work in the community, pointing out to us houses that he helped build, remodeling projects he had completed, and taking particular joy in the fact that several of the lumber racks on the trucks at one particular job site had been made while he was at Fortuna Iron Works. These projects were proof of the long hours he worked to ensure that his children were provided for. Having long dreamed of a career in law enforcement, Rigo took a step toward that goal and enrolled in the police academy at College of the Redwoods in 1998.  During this time, Rigo worked from sunrise to sunset, attending the academy during the day, working jobs in his off time, and studying late into the night to ensure that he did his absolute best.  I don’t recall him sleeping much during this period in his life and it still boggles my mind how he accomplished so much on top of providing for Jake and I, getting us to and from school, ensuring that all of our needs were met, and still finding the time to take us on family outings.  Rigo’s effort paid off and, after many long months, he graduated from the police academy. On February 19th, 1999, he was sworn in as 3B83, becoming a police officer with the Eureka Police Department.  Rigo was so happy to have achieved his goal of being in Law Enforcement that it didn’t seem possible that things could get any better.  That said, while this was all transpiring, Megann gave birth to her daughter, Katelynne Grace-Sanchez in June of 1999.  Rigo developed a very close bond with baby Katie.  That little girl had an effect on Rigo that I had never before seen in him.  Stern but loving with Jake and I, this little blonde baby girl made Rigo’s heart absolutely melt and there wasn’t anything on Earth that would stop him from doing everything that he could to protect her.  From day one, he loved her as his own.  He called her mija, and she called him dad, and that was the end of the discussion. Just love, acceptance, and a deep sense of belonging.  Rigo’s career at EPD spanned over two decades. He was promoted to a patrol sergeant in December of 2007, and throughout his career, he served with distinction in numerous roles, including S.W.A.T. team member, P.O.P. team sergeant, Defensive Tactics instructor, Armorer, and Crisis Negotiations alternate. But in the end, it wasn’t the titles or roles he held that mattered— it was the friendships he forged along the way. These bonds ran deep, standing the test of time and surrounding his family with strength, love, and protection when they needed it most. Over his 23 years of service to the City and citizens of Eureka, Rigo received numerous accolades recognizing his dedication to the community and exceptional police work. His legacy continues to echo through the local law enforcement community to this day.  There were few in the community who didn’t know Rigo.  And no matter the nature of one’s interactions with him, it was a given that he would unerringly maintain his integrity and honesty, always striving to reach the most amicable outcome possible. In February of 2003, Rigo met a young woman by the name of Michelle Olson. He built a fence for her and her “dumb old dogs”, a simple, generous act that quietly became the beginning of their love story. Initially, he tried to keep their relationship from Jake and me, (though he did manage to get Anna’s approval), however he wasn’t as sneaky as he thought.  The look on his face when he told us, and we told him that we had known for some time, was priceless.  What we didn’t know then was that Rigo had once told Michelle, “Not just anyone gets to meet my sons.” In those words, he had already chosen her.  As time went on, it became clear that she wasn’t just someone he loved—she was someone he trusted with the most important parts of his life. Rigo was fiercely protective of his family, and letting someone into that circle meant everything. As we came to know Michelle, it became clear why- she and Rigo complemented each other perfectly. Their connection was rooted in love, respect, and a shared devotion to their families. Her calm, genuine nature and incomparable kindness played off Rigo’s stern, no-nonsense demeanor and deadpan humor in a way that I thought was reserved for movies.  Watching Rigo and Michelle together will always be a cherished memory as the love they shared radiated so strongly.  The way Rigo’s face would light up when he talked about her will always be in my mind.  In the fall of  2009, they decided it was time to take the next step, filled with excitement and hope as they prepared to begin their life together as husband and wife. Their wedding, followed by a celebration that lasted all day and into the night, was filled with joy, laughter, and hundreds of family and friends who came to wish them well.  In those early years, they often took trips to their favorite spots in Oregon or spent long afternoons driving the backroads of Humboldt County, sipping on Jitter Bean or Gold Rush.

coffee, and soaking in the peace and beauty of the journey together. During those times, Jake and I were usually tasked with housesitting the dogs, and I always enjoyed seeing the latest photos of them on their fridge- Rigo’s smile just barely visible beneath his signature mustache. In October 2011, Rigo and Michelle welcomed their first daughter, Stevie René into the world.  Rigo was over the moon, to say the least.  The sheer volume of pictures he sent out of his baby girl was such that I had never, and would never, see again.  That is, at least, until Sophia Maria came onto the scene in June of 2015.  From raising two sons to raising two daughters, some would find the situation somewhat challenging.  But not Rigo.  He rose to the challenge in his typical fashion and proved himself to be quite adept at the girl dad life.  He spent a lot of time shopping at Tractor Supply, patiently waiting during horseback lessons, and braving the school drop off and pick up duties. To say Stevie and Sophia had him wrapped around their fingers would be an understatement. Together, they transformed the family garden into a goat pen, restored the pasture fences for the horse, and repaired the rabbit's hutch. Most recently, he helped both girls with their school projects, earning them, and himself, a perfect 100%. A more attentive and loving father I have never seen. I will forever cherish the memories of receiving frantic phone calls late in the evening from Rigo asking me to provide homework assistance (math, usually) for Stevie and Sophie. As Rigo’s family continued to grow, it became necessary to find a larger space to accommodate the expanding roster of children, and all friends and extended family that came along with them.  And so, it was time for Rigo to make his return to Hydesville.  In 2020, he and Michelle, along with Jake and his wife Lindsey, purchased their dream home on the hill overlooking the town in which Rigo grew up.  The Reyna-Sanchez compound, as Rigo proudly called it, had been established.  As they settled into their new home, the good times kept on coming.  I will never forget the eventful week in late 2020 when it was revealed that not only was Michelle pregnant, but so were both of Rigo’s daughters-in-law.  Rigo was to welcome another daughter and TWO granddaughters into the world all within weeks of each other. His daughter, Faith Michelle Louise was the first of the three, arriving on a beautiful day in February of 2021.  Tragically, Faith was not meant to stay long in this world. Rigo was heartbroken, but he leaned on his faith in God, and stood strong with love and support for Michelle and the family. He carried Faith’s memory tenderly in his heart and held her in his prayers for the rest of his life. Our mourning was turned into joy with the arrival of Fern Maria in March and Vivienne Lee in April. Suddenly, Rigo became a grandfather, a role he absolutely treasured - and one that his granddaughters returned in spades. Known affectionately as Papa Rigo, he was always excited to see them, dropping everything to scoop them up into his arms. An early retirement gave Rigo the precious gift of time to be a deeply present grandfather. At family gatherings, he could often be found doting on the girls - teaching them anything he could and giving them everything their little hears desired. Especially snacks. As Rigo settled into his role as a grandfather, the family received a joyful surprise in October 2022 when he announced Michelle was expecting.  As with all of his children, Rigo was beyond excited. In February of 2023, he welcomed his third son, Gabriel Jesus into the world.  Gabriel, truly Rigo in miniature, was he panacea Rigo needed to soothe his soul. Once Gabriel started walking, he followed Rigo everywhere, eager to help his daddy fix whatever was broken— whether it was the truck wheel, the garbage can, or even the beloved “moo cow” his little hands were always ready to help. Rigo would speak of Gabriel with pride in his voice, so happy to have another soul to share the wisdom of his parents with, as well as early mornings watching SB Mowing and SB Pressure Washing together.  As Rigo settled into his role as an experienced new father and Papa, the family received exciting news— Vivienne  Lee was going to be a big sister. In March of 2025, he welcomed his namesake, Griffin Rodrigo, into the family. Though their time together was incredibly short, Rigo carried immense love, happiness, and pride for his first grandson and the youngest member of the family. One of the last pictures taken of Rigo captured him holding baby G-Rod, gently inspecting his tiny toes. In 2024, thanks to his sister Veronica and a recommendation from a great neighbor and friend, Rigo was offered a position with GR Sundberg Inc. He proudly contributed to the restoration work on Highway 36, bringing his trademark dedication and heart to every task. He and his mother-in-law, ‘Grandma,’ shared many conversations about how good it felt for him to be back to work. Most mornings, he’d give her updates on the progress and previous night's work. Rigo felt his best when he was working and helping others, it gave him purpose and joy. His coworkers shared that he was appreciated for his work ethic, always willing and ready to work, and his ability to approach every task with determination and pride.  Beyond his professional contributions, Rigo was described as a mentor and a confidant. His ability to listen and provide honest and thoughtful advice, was a rare gift, and one that many will treasure greatly.  Rigo passed doing what he had done his entire life: putting others ahead of himself and hoping that through his efforts, the world could be just a little bit more enjoyable and safe.  To say that we, his family, are heartbroken would fail to quantify the sheer magnitude of our grief.  Rigo was our rock.  The beacon in the darkness  that allowed all of us to find our way home no matter how weary of the world we became. Each of us is better for having known him, whether as a father, a husband, a brother or brotherin-law, an uncle, a Papa, a son-in-law, or a friend. Rigo’s impact on those closest to him cannot be overstated.  As we begin to heal and adjust to the chasm his passing has left in each of our hearts, I am confident that he will continue to live on within us—through our actions, through our faith, through our hard work, and through our dedication to family and friends. He lives on in our commitment to do all we can to make the world a kinder, more loving place for everyone. Rest easy, Dad. Until we meet again. 

Rigo is preceded in death by his parents - Maria Sanchez-Farias (Mama) and Jesus Reyna-Jimenez (Papa), his baby girl- Faith Michelle Louise Reyna-Sanchez, his paternal grandparents - Epifanio Reyna and Margarita Jimenez, his maternal grandparents - Jose Sanchez and Rita Farias, Michelle's maternal grandparents- William and Diane Cooke, paternal grandparents-‘Swede’ and Alice Olson, loved member of extended family, Nathan Ingersoll, as well as many beloved family members too numerous to list. Rigo is survived by his wife, Michelle Louise Reyna-Sanchez, his son Jordan Rodrigo Grace-Reyna-Sanchez (Andrea) and granddaughter Fern, his son Jake Ryan Reyna-Sanchez (Lindsey) and grandchildren Vivienne and Griffin, his daughters Katelynne Elizabeth Grace-Sanchez (fiancé Cody), Stevie Rene Reyna-Sanchez, and Sophia Maria Reyna-Sanchez, and his son Gabriel Jesus Reyna-Sanchez.  He also leaves behind his siblings that will miss him dearly:  his sisters Anna Bertha Goodale (husband Drake and son Jace), Veronica Margarita Medina (sons Lucero, Luciano, Alfonso, and Alejandro), and Rosa Lucia Lewandowski (husband Rob and daughter Chloe), and his brother Jorge Luis Reyna-Sanchez (wife Kendra and daughters Isabella and Madalyn).  Rigo is additionally survived by the following, all of whom he loved greatly: Megann Grace-Sanchez, Donald Grace, Rob Grace (sons Austin and Wyatt), Grandma- Ruth and Carlos Avelar, Bob Olson, Rachel and Scott Pesch (children Ethan, Ellie, and Emily), Rebecca and Keith Ingersoll (children Maryah, Makenzi, Mason, Dylan, Josh, Will and Wade), Matthew and Katie Olson (daughters Janie, Josie, and Lucy), Mary and Madison Acres, Gabriel and Aurelia Reyna, and Chayo Reyna.  

Rigo’s family, chosen or otherwise, is immense and for anyone not mentioned directly, know that Rigo loved you, we love you, and we would love for you to reach out and share your favorite Rigo story with us.  Services were held for Rigo on Friday, June 13th, 2025, at Sacred Heart Catholic Church in Eureka, followed by a beautiful reception at the River Lodge in Fortuna. Thank you to everyone who came to celebrate, honor, and remember his life with us, and to those who have reached out with love, prayers, and support. Your kindness brings us comfort and healing as we navigate our enormous loss. 

With love and gratitude, La Familia de Rodrigo Reyna-Sanchez